Amara, 29
VerifiedI'm weirdly passionate about
Bread that takes three days. I will talk you through the whole schedule.
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I'm weirdly passionate about
Bread that takes three days. I will talk you through the whole schedule.
My ideal Sunday looks like
Long walk, short nap, someone reading next to me who talks to the book.
I'll know it's a good connection if
We lose the thread of the conversation and neither of us minds.
The way to my heart is
Bring me a playlist with a reason attached to every track.
On weekends you will find me
In the cheap seats at the theatre, then arguing about it over noodles.
What I bring to a relationship
Steadiness, a decent curry, and genuine interest in whatever you nerd out on.
Something most people do not know about me
I learned Portuguese to read one poet properly. Worth it.
My biggest green flag is
I say what I mean the first time, kindly.
My idea of a perfect first date
Ninety minutes, one coffee, no phones. If it works, we extend it.
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