Journal

Notes on dating, carefully

Safety guidance we would give a friend, and the thinking behind how Soula is built. We publish when we have something worth saying.


  • A calm checklist for meeting someone new

    Practical dating safety without the scare tactics: what to do before a first date, how romance scams actually open, and how to leave a situation that feels wrong.

    The Soula safety team

  • Why five people a day

    Endless choice makes dating harder, not better. Here is the thinking behind the Daily 5, and what changed in our beta when we stopped showing people an infinite feed.

    The Soula team

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